Archive for April, 2020

By Alex Hamp

Betty Ann Dillon“Actions speak much louder than words” is a belief instilled in Betty Ann Dillon by her parents and grandmother. It does not take long for one to realize that Betty Ann is a lady always in action! At almost 91, she shows little intention of slowing down. For close to 77 years Betty Ann Dillon has been an integral member of Richmond’s First Baptist Church.

calloutThe daughter of a Baptist minister, Betty Ann moved to Richmond in 1943 when her father was appointed Director of Race Relations for the Virginia Council of Churches. It wasn’t long before the family joined FBC and Betty Ann began her involvement with the church. While in high school, Betty Ann was very involved with the Vesper Club, which provided activities similar to today’s Wednesday night youth group. It was here at First Baptist that Betty Ann met her first husband, William Doub. “Billy” had been on the Cradle Roll at FBC as an infant and was later baptized at the Church. She and Bill were married in the Chapel (now the Library) in June of 1949, the same year she received both a Bachelor of Arts degree and a Master of Arts degree from Westhampton College at the University of Richmond. In her early adult years at First Baptist, Betty Ann was involved with the Forum, a group of mostly young people who met for snack supper and had a speaker on Sunday evenings before the evening service began. Betty Ann also taught Sunday School classes to the intermediate youth group, sang in the choir and worked in the library.

In a time when many women did not work outside the home, Betty Ann began building an impressive work resume. In 1949, with psychology and sociology degrees, she became the Senior Personnel Assistant at State-Planters Bank. She worked with managing, recruiting, and consulting for thirteen years at the bank. In 1963, Betty Ann was delighted to be pregnant with her first born, Sandy, and left the bank to find part-time work as a psychologist at the woman’s prison in Goochland and then went to work at Pinecrest Juvenile Detention Center for Boys. In 1966 she gave birth to a second daughter, Donna. She continued working part-time, while raising the girls.

Throughout most of the seventies and eighties Betty Ann worked at the Diagnostic Center for Juvenile Services in Bon Air and then for the State of Virginia; first in the Office of Employee Relations and then at the Virginia Employment Commission as the Director of Human Resources. Tragically, her husband Billy, suffered a massive heart attack and died in 1977, leaving Betty Ann to raise her two daughters, ages 11 and 14. It was at the Office of Employees Relations that she would meet Matt Dillon, whom she married in 1985. They went on to begin Dillon D & I, a personnel consulting business. The D stood for diligence and the I for integrity, two values Betty Ann exemplified throughout her work, spiritual and personal life. Betty Ann officially retired from working in 2000.

With her retirement and Matt’s passing in 2005, Betty Ann became an even more active and recognizable figure of FBC. She has faithfully served as a deacon, a member of the Budget and Finance Team, and has twice chaired the Personnel Team. She has volunteered in food services for over thirty years. The First Baptist Preschool, another important mission of the church, has always had a special place in Betty Ann’s heart. Her older daughter, Sandy, attended the weekday preschool in the sixties and Betty Ann has been on the preschool board for more years than she can count! In 2014 she became the chair of the board. Betty Ann has been a champion of the preschool and has shared much wisdom with the director, fellow board members, staff and families.

If you cannot find Betty Ann at First Baptist, you may find her at a number of other local places and organizations in the Richmond area. Especially dear to her are both the Shepherd Center and the University of Richmond. Betty Ann has served on numerous boards at the University and has been a trustee and leader in the alumni association there. She is also actively involved in the Shepherd Center, a service and education organization for older citizens of the Richmond area. There she has led groups and has been the President of the Board of Directors.

Steve Booth summarizes Betty Ann beautifully, “Betty Ann’s commitment and resilience as a congregational and community leader are without peer. I continue to marvel and be inspired by Betty Ann’s ability to turn every obstacle into an opportunity to celebrate God’s goodness. Whether leading a ministry team, serving as a small group facilitator or taking a principled stand, Betty Ann is an exemplary servant leader and a disciple worthy of emulation.”

Betty Ann has lived a full and busy life! She has experienced the sorrow of the passing of two husbands and both of her daughters. Despite all of this she shares, “God has looked after me for ninety years, and I do not think he is stopping now!”

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By Sarah E. Amick AlZubi

Have you ever walked somewhere and known that, from this point on, your steps along life’s path would be forever changed? (God can work through our feet.)

Have you ever touched something, and in reaching out, realized that you were what was being moved? (God can work through our hands.)

Have you ever seen someone’s face, really looked into their eyes, and felt a soul connection that you knew you would always remember? (God can work in and through our heads and hearts.)

We experienced these types of encounters, and more, throughout our week in Bosnia and Herzegovina last fall. International travel often results in life-changing moments, and mission trips tend to affect us in unexpected ways. We hear and follow God’s call to go and serve, end up receiving much more than we could ever give, and afterward try to express our gratitude for that as much as possible.

Our team of four (Steve Blanchard, Candi Brown and Sarah Amick AlZubi, from Richmond’s First Baptist Church, and Kenny Davis, pastor of Bybee’s Road Baptist Church) all left Richmond together on September 27 and arrived safely in Zagreb, Croatia on September 28. However, shortly after landing, we discovered that our entire plane’s luggage had been left behind at our previous layover stop in Germany! After our initial shock, our minds were quickly put at ease when we were met at the airport by the welcoming face of Elvis, our amazing and experienced host and guide for this trip who has worked with several Virginia Baptist mission teams over the past few years and Tiha, who provided much needed support, advice and a wealth of knowledge and experience regarding humanitarian aid. We made a few minor schedule adjustments, including a stop to buy some additional clothing and necessities, and arrived in Bihac, Bosnia on September 29. It was not lost on us that we had the resources to adapt and purchase new items as needed and that we should not take that for granted. Most of the time when someone is forced to leave their home as a refugee and travel on foot for hundreds of miles all they have are the clothes on their backs and a “carry-on.” If they can survive with that for months or years, we could certainly do so for a week.

Our first morning in Bosnia was beautiful and sunny and we were ready to get to work! Our team was led and accompanied by Elvis, Tiha and Vlad, another experienced humanitarian aid worker with a truly Christ-like, compassionate heart who joined us in Bihac. We traveled together that morning to the infamous Vučjak camp. Prior to our arrival, we had heard about the inhumane and unsanitary conditions in this “unofficial” camp, but actually being there on the site of a former landfill where people were now being forced to live among rubbish with no running water or toilets, was not something for which we could have fully prepared ourselves. (Plus, there were landmines left over from Balkan wars throughout the countryside and mountains surrounding the camp.) There were no permanent structures for shelter or medical care, just tents of various sizes and conditions. The hundreds of inhabitants of this “tent city” were making the best of a terrible situation, though, and welcomed us to their “home” with kind greetings and curiosity.

Throughout the week we also visited three other camps in Bihac, all filled and overflowing. We received informative tours, saw and experienced incredible hospitality and good work being done by the International Organization for Migration staff and other partners in those camps. It was encouraging to know that not every camp was as troubling as Vučjak. Since that is where the need was greatest, we returned there for the rest of that week. Every day we met new people from Afghanistan, Pakistan, India, Iran, Iraq and Syria, and heard more stories of why they had to leave home, the family members they dearly missed, what their journey had been like so far and where they planned to go next, God willing. We heard horrifying stories of danger and injury, heartbreaking stories of loss and illness, as well as heartfelt stories of hopes and dreams for the future.

Incredibly hardworking and committed Red Cross volunteers were also there every day trying to make the camp as livable, safe and healthy as possible. They oversaw distributing food, and we were happy to help them with this task. We also distributed hygiene kits, snacks, blankets and clothing items. Hardworking refugees residing in the camp were always happy to lend a hand, helping to maintain orderly lines, serving food, distributing supplies and assisting with translation when needed. Every day we worked alongside our new friends, picking up trash and repairing leaky tents blown down by gusts of wind and rain. There was also time for meaningful conversations and a few games, accompanied by genuine smiles and laughter. It was a blessing to be used by God to meet these physical, emotional and spiritual needs all around us, through our hands, feet, heads and hearts.

By the end of the week, a place that no one would choose to call home had begun to feel comfortable in some ways. This was not because of the physical conditions (which were still miserable), but because of the humanity, hospitality and compassion shared by everyone, including refugees, migrants, Red Cross volunteers, our team and even the dedicated police officers standing guard at the camp entrance. It was surprisingly difficult to say goodbye. I found myself blinking back tears as I promised to pray, raise awareness and most of all never forget the wonderful people I had met, all of whom are beautiful children of God, deserving of love, dignity and respect. We all have this in common and truly are connected, whether we realize it or not. If only we can remember that our actions here and around the world impact more people in more ways than we could ever imagine.

Now when I walk outside on a cold, windy evening, I look up at the sky and see the bright moon and stars. I quickly calculate in my head that if it’s 8:00 p.m. here in Virginia, then it’s 2:00 a.m. in the Balkans. I wonder if anyone there is awake and looking up at the same night sky, perhaps one of the many people we met last fall. I wonder how cold it is there now and what the snow looks like in the mountains. I wonder if they are safe and warm inside a building or huddled under a raggedy blanket in a drafty tent or, even worse, camping in the forest, completely unsheltered and unprotected from the freezing temperatures and harsh wind. I know the needs there are still overwhelming and the overall situation is very unstable. I say a prayer for them, that they may experience some comfort wherever they are, feel peace during struggles and uncertainty and, most of all, know they are not alone and not forgotten.

Author’s note: Thankfully, in mid-December, the Vučjak camp was closed and dismantled and those currently staying there were relocated to a more humane, sustainable location near Sarajevo. Thousands of refugees and migrants are continuing to arrive in Bosnia and Herzegovina on their way to the European Union and additional support and long-term solutions to the refugee crisis are still needed.

Editor’s note: On March 22, 2020 Croatia was hit by a series of earthquakes. At the same time, Croatia has been fighting to flatten the curve on the spreading of the Coronavirus. Strict measures have been put in place, asking people to stay at home and avoid social contact. Donate to Croatian Baptist Aid.

See Ann Carter’s previous post and another on Virginia Baptist mission teams going to Bosnia.

Story on the former Vučjak camp.

Bosnia and Herzegovina, October 5, 2019 – CBAid partners from Virginia (USA) visit refugee camps Sedra, Bira, Boriće and Vučjak in Bosnia and Herzegovina.

We saw parts of this BBC video being filmed while in Vucjak.

This is another news video filmed in Vucjak while we were there.

Sarah E. Amick AlZubi

Sarah E. Amick AlZubi joined FBC in 2015. She rings handbells, sings in Church Choir and One Accord, and serves on the Compassion Ministry Board. She participated in mission trips to China, Toronto, Romania and Bosnia. Sarah met her husband, who is from Jordan, at VCU, where she worked almost 12 years. She loves to travel and get to know people (and food!) from around the world.

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