By Ann Carter
Student Ministry at Richmond’s First Baptist Church is a special place made up of amazing students. Not only are they really smart, delightful, funny and enthusiastic; they are courageous, vulnerable, open, inclusive and welcoming. They are especially eager to work hard on the things that matter to them. They have a clarity of vision and an uncanny ability to see through the masks we wear, and they are not afraid to point out when our actions don’t match our words.
While Dr. Somerville was on sabbatical I was invited to preach a sermon about why I do what I do. In that sermon, I gave you an insider’s peek into my minister’s heart when I shared the three things that ignite my curiosity, inspire my soul and motivate my work: 1) the church, 2) scripture, and 3) our students. I spent a good bit of time talking about scripture and the church and I shared a bit about how our students inspire me. Several of you have asked for more, wondering what our students are thinking and talking about. So here you go, a glimpse into the remarkable minds of our students:
Race – Our youth believe every human is an image bearer of God and they puzzle over those who do not acknowledge that systems of racism impact our nation even today. Equity and equality are very important to them. They are willing to look in the mirror and see how their attitudes and behaviors might harm others, and they are willing to listen, learn and change.
Diversity – Our students love that our youth group is diverse. Not only do they come from more than 30 different schools, they cross the political spectrum, their theologies vary, they are exploring their own identities and orientation, and many come from non-traditional families. They are involved in as many activities as there are people in the youth group and yet I challenge you to find a group that loves each other more or better than this one.
Human Rights – Our youth want the church to not only talk about human rights but to address the issues of the violation of human rights we encounter in our city and in our world. They don’t think that talking about human rights is political, they think it is about honoring the image of God in others, and about empowering, equipping and enabling individuals to thrive.
Justice – Our students are very clear that justice is the work of the church. They read it in the pages of scripture, they see it reflected in the character of God and in the work God does in the world. They believe that God intends that we (as individuals and as the church) treat all people with equity and it breaks their heart when they witness inequity in our world. Along with race and human rights, they do not view justice as political, rather they view it as part of the work to which God has called the church.
Service – Our students love to put their faith into action and they are hard workers. I have witnessed them replace roofs, demo kitchens, install cabinets, paint houses, and harvest vegetables with an energy and an enthusiasm I would love to bottle and sell. I have also witnessed them feed the hungry with generosity, engage those who are homeless with love and kind attention, and care for children with tenderness and care. What is remarkable is that they engage others with humility and an understanding that those we serve have dignity and value. They want to contribute to the world in ways that are significant and meaningful. We are not saviors, we are servants.
Sexuality – This may be the most pressing topic in student ministry these days. Each of our students know and love people in the LGBTQ community—some of them members of our group—who are not “normative” either in their gender or their sexuality. Our students believe that individuals do not choose their sexuality or their gender identity any more than they can choose the color of their eyes, their height, or the width of their feet. They are open and affirming – not necessarily of lifestyle, but of personhood worthy of God’s love, the love of each other and a place in the church. They love and accept their friends no matter their race, gender, sexuality, identity or political persuasion.
And here is what they want from their church, in their words (as articulated at our recent Fall Retreat):
- We want to hold space for “all sides” of the political aisle.
- We want to figure out ways to have conversations to honor all.
- We need more of Steve Blanchard’s Front Page Faith conversations! Our youth want to engage in these discussions about topics we’re reading about on the front page of the paper.
- We want there to be acceptance of different opinions.
- We want to get to know people in our church outside our age group (I love this one. They want to get to know you!)
- We want the church to make space for us in important conversations. Don’t leave us at the “kid’s table.”
In my sermon I said that we need to learn from our students. I am certainly doing that. Even though I am supposed to be their teacher, they teach me an awful lot about true and beloved community, authenticity, acceptance, and courage. They love each other well and their hearts are open to God and to the world God loves. It is beautiful to witness. It is a sacred privilege to bear witness to and to hold space for these students as they navigate life and faith. I hope you will join me in this sacred privilege; they want you to!